Wednesday, July 1, 2009

no secret

It is no secret that we women are complicated creatures! We feel happy when it is sunny,when then sun goes behind the clouds for a moment we are sad but then it comes back a minute later and we are ok once again. We feel very deeply. We cry when we see a sad commercial on the tv, we jump up and down literally when a friend tells us they are getting married, we get angry, we get frustrated, we get everything really. We are tough and we are sensitive. We are every oxymoron in the book. We can be so kind and generous and lets be honest we can be bitchy too. We can be nasty and we can be absolutely selfless. We sincerely wonder why men don't get us. Why did he say that when he knows my friend has a friend who had the same thing happen to her? Why did he buy that when I hinted 3 months that I wanted this. We are sometimes clueless but we are incredibly in tune to every interest, tension, and gesture happening in the room. We listen, we care, we want is best for our loved ones. We have big dreams. We are intelligent. We do not give up easily when we really want something, especially things like ice cream, shoes, and sun glasses. We are jealous and protective. Why does she say your name like that? Like what? Like all high piched and flirty...She does?

Men, I write this for you, so you know, so the next time she bursts into tears because she sees the cute commercial, the one with puppies and toilet paper, you can just hold her hand or laugh to yourself but you'll understand, you'll get it. Women I write this for you so you can laugh too, relax, and no matter how crazy you may feel like you are sometimes, there is another woman out there even crazier than you.
Be who you are, love who you are, you are amazing.